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January 4th 2007 03:46
I've got to admit, he's given me the eye before. Recently, he gave up another piece of the puzzle - simply saying he has had a sexual identity crisis recently. Made me think - have I?

Certain people believe everyone is bisexual, but I disagree. Most people, maybe. So many people I have met or heard about that have unclear sexual intentions, to the point where the rest of us tend to keep our relatively simple love lives to ourselves. To a point.

All that time they spend expressing their side of sex life, we need to express ours. I have given him some tips in how to handle emotions towards a woman, I figured he'd appreciate it. Thankfully he did, but trying it with others - ego got in the way. "What do you know about women?" is the result you tend to get from those who prefer the company of prostitutes. A dirty face, and possibly a bit of talking dirt behind your back, tends to be the way of the all-elusive metrosexual.


He claims I'm his best friend, so no I won't lose such a friendship over sexual preference, long as the target's not me too often. If I was just another average friend, it would make me think again - allow him to find his niche. He has been the target of prejudice before, I'm here to help if it happens again.

And me? I try to avoid fantasy these days, but when a new woman comes into my life I'll let her feed me (imagination, soul) whichever way she pleases. Whether we just lock eyes and walk on by, or something deeper forms - into our (imagination, soul).
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Comment by Optomistic Opportunism

January 4th 2007 04:11
"What a fool believes..
Is far better than nothing
Nothing at all..."

(The Doobie Brothers)

Comment by Ash

January 4th 2007 08:15
My best friend recently told me she was gay.I must admit I was gobsmacked...and a little afraid. I was scared she would try something or tell me she was in love with me or whatever and it would ruin our friendship. Dont get me wrong I have nothing against gay people, I have a gay relative and some gay friends and do not judge them at it - it is the way they are and makes them happy so who are we to try and change them? They do not ridicule me for loving men. We chatted about it and now everthing is fine - fear gone, ruined friendship averted......

Comment by Optomistic Opportunism

January 5th 2007 03:30
Thanx 4 sharing, Ash. I think there are certain topics today that need to be touched on, before they become modern mysteries (hence the -mystic).

Thanx also for the New Years thing... I'm hoping Lily isn't annoyed at me for leaving without mentioning anything...

Comment by Ash

January 5th 2007 04:55
Nah I`m sure she understands! We are all friends here in Orbleland - we come and go as we please - like a huge global house that everyone has keys to!

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