Some just aren't coming to the party
December 30th 2009 05:17
I have heard that women are more inclined to mill over small pieces and thoughts with others, while men prefer to let information sink in without a word being said. This backs the theory that many women prefer to indulge in small talk, and prefer to avoid those that don't, and can also be vice versa for males.
Often with blatant disregard for the subject of conversation, and not allowing for the subject's side of the story, men can find themselves pitted against the opposite sex when they are being talked about without their knowledge. Mind you, these are the same women who did the same thing to girlfriends in high school when a mutual decision is made to have one of the girls ousted.
As minds adapt to other environments outside of educational facilities, these thought processes are commonly expected to generate into a somewhat misplaced snub towards the male libido. While some may respond optimistically and come to the conclusion that it was probably a positive experience at least for the male, others feel that sex - not within the confines of a formal relationship - should be punished.
And hence, we find stronger bonds formed with girlfriends as they decide to mutually dispose of any contact with the man who went against their neocatholic ways. Forget opposites attract, this is all about two negative opinions forming to make a positive opinion detract.
But we must be reminded that for the most part, women are warm and reciprocating towards sexual success, especially if it is a successful outcome for both parties. There are also those who simply couldn't care less, and some who are disturbed by such a turn in the topic of conversation.
I tend to find myself whole-heartedly agreeing with the feminist theory of acceptance, and being accepted, towards the opposite sex. Like being attractive to, and attracting, the potential suitor.
So when I find myself in a situation involving attraction while turning away from one's libido, and yes women have libidos, I feel like I missed something. Possibly I am being ignorant.
But when mutual attraction is not met with mutual acceptance..you know. Invites may be sent to one and all, but some just aren't coming to the party.
Often with blatant disregard for the subject of conversation, and not allowing for the subject's side of the story, men can find themselves pitted against the opposite sex when they are being talked about without their knowledge. Mind you, these are the same women who did the same thing to girlfriends in high school when a mutual decision is made to have one of the girls ousted.
As minds adapt to other environments outside of educational facilities, these thought processes are commonly expected to generate into a somewhat misplaced snub towards the male libido. While some may respond optimistically and come to the conclusion that it was probably a positive experience at least for the male, others feel that sex - not within the confines of a formal relationship - should be punished.
And hence, we find stronger bonds formed with girlfriends as they decide to mutually dispose of any contact with the man who went against their neocatholic ways. Forget opposites attract, this is all about two negative opinions forming to make a positive opinion detract.
But we must be reminded that for the most part, women are warm and reciprocating towards sexual success, especially if it is a successful outcome for both parties. There are also those who simply couldn't care less, and some who are disturbed by such a turn in the topic of conversation.
I tend to find myself whole-heartedly agreeing with the feminist theory of acceptance, and being accepted, towards the opposite sex. Like being attractive to, and attracting, the potential suitor.
So when I find myself in a situation involving attraction while turning away from one's libido, and yes women have libidos, I feel like I missed something. Possibly I am being ignorant.
But when mutual attraction is not met with mutual acceptance..you know. Invites may be sent to one and all, but some just aren't coming to the party.
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